Hey there! I know that the days seem so long and December seems so far away. But, I promise you the next twenty weeks will go by unimaginably fast. I remember how scary those last few weeks before viability were – the nightmares, the constant worry when the baby wasn’t moving the same as they had been the day before – especially now that you’ve had the big anatomy ultrasound and everything looked perfectly healthy. I know you are still questioning if being surprised by the baby’s gender was the right decision, and I want to let you know that is 100% the right decision. There is nothing like hearing Douglas proclaim, “It’s a girl,” in the delivery room, oh, that’s right, the baby you are carrying in your womb is a spunky red-headed little girl, just like the one you’ve seen in your dreams.